Finding the Right Dress: Start Your Search Early

The search for your wedding dress should feel exciting, not stressful. Whether you’re planning a city hall elopement or an intimate pop-up wedding, starting early gives you time to find something that feels like you—without rushing, overspending, or settling.

When to Start

We recommend beginning your search at least 6–9 months before your wedding, especially if you’re considering made-to-order gowns or want time for tailoring. Even for off-the-rack or ready-to-wear options, having time on your side helps you:

• Shop with clarity instead of urgency

• Watch for sales or discounts

• Explore unexpected options (like online shops or non-bridal designers)

Know Your Timeline

Here’s a general guideline:

• Try on dresses: 6–9 months before

• Order: 6 months before

• First fitting: 2–3 months before

• Final fitting: 2–3 weeks before

Be Open at First

Start broad—try on a few silhouettes, necklines, and fabrics. What you thought you wanted may surprise you. Then narrow in on what feels best on your body and suits the vibe of your wedding.

Bring the Right People

Whether you’re shopping in person or texting links, surround yourself with people who support your vision. Too many opinions can cloud your judgment. One or two trusted voices is often best.

Take Photos and Notes

If you're visiting shops or browsing online, keep a folder of favorites. Pay attention to recurring themes—certain necklines, fabrics, or brands you love. These clues will help guide your final pick.

Final Thought

Starting early doesn’t mean overthinking—it means giving yourself the gift of time to find something you’ll feel amazing in. Trust your instincts, stay true to your style, and enjoy the process. The right dress is out there—and when you find it, you’ll know.

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